Dear Friends and Family,

 

Thank you for your continued support and encouraging words on “The Truth about Parenting: Navigating the Elementary Years.”  

 

School is quickly coming to a close for students on the traditional calendar. Before the desks are cleaned out and your kids bring home backpacks full of cherished work from the year, be sure to ask teachers for recommendations on curriculum guides you can buy or borrow that will help them continue their learning throughout the summer. One of the best places to purchase books and more is Stones School Supply Center. Click here for their catalog. For more tips on boosting your child’s education during the summer, read the special excerpt from my book at the bottom of this newsletter.

 

A big thank you to those that took the time to write reviews for the Amazon web site. Yes, you can still log in and write a review by clicking here. If you haven’t already purchased a copy of the book, you can order one now. Below are a few of my faithful friends and family who wrote in star reviews:

 

 

A great guide for parents, May 14, 2006

Reviewer:

S. Edwards (Raleigh, NC) - See all my reviews
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I found this book to be a great guide for the elementary years. We are adopting the family constitution! This book reinforces some of our values we have in our family. I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants some helpful tips from a "real world" family!

 

Comprehensive, humorous, practical, May 14, 2006

Reviewer:

Mary J. Lee (Virginia) - See all my reviews
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Ms. Weidle's book on navigating the elementary years includes wonderful ideas for implementing strong family values, having fun, and fostering academic success for children. Her ideas about how to create holidays that are meaningful and community oriented was great. She also deals wholesomely with sexual issues, death, and coping with an ever changing complex world. This book is well laid out, an easy and informative read.

 

Ideas for creating good family relations, May 15, 2006

Reviewer:

C. Lewis (Seattle, WA USA) - See all my reviews
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As a former neighbor of the Weidles, I could really appreciate the personal stories in this book. Liza shares some great examples and ideas for developing a strong foundation for keeping families close, connected, healthy and involved in their communities. I'm not sure the title best describes this book, however I really enjoyed it.

 

UPCOMING EVENTS:


June 4 (Sunday)
6:30-7:30. Parenting workshop and book signing with special focus on Dads at First United Methodist in Cary. www.fumc-cary.org. If you purchase the book at the event, you will receive 20% off the cover price. Written in small bites a parent can read in-between swim meet events or at the beach, this book makes a great gift for others and is on-the-go book to read you buy to tuck in the pool bag.

 

Special book review feature in the May edition of The North Carolina Journal for Women. Click here to read the review. For more reviews and information, visit http://home.nc.rr.com/lizaweidle/ . Special note of thanks to Peder Zane and D.G. Martin who helped spread the word on my book!

 

BOOK AVAILABILITY:

  

Ø      Borders in Cary still has an exclusive on the sales of my book in the triangle area.  Click here to find out more.

 

Ø      Manny’s Christian Book Store and Snap Dragon Way Cool Toys in New Bern are also selling the book.

 

Ø      If you can’t make it into one of these fine stores, you can send a check for $16.95 plus $3.00 for tax/shipping and handling. Please make check out to Parenting books by Liza Weidle and, I can have one mailed to you. Send the check and order to 106 Marquette Drive, Cary, NC  27513. Special Father’s Day Special – buy 2 for $25.

 

Ø      Order The Truth about Parenting: Navigating the Elementary Years online. Click here for the Amazon link.

 

Ø      Wake County Libraries has ‘The Truth about Parenting: Navigating the Elementary Years” available for check-out. Click here to request the book.

 

If you know of a non-profit organization that would like more information on using my book as fundraiser, please let me know.

 

 

 

 

Keep the Learning Going Over the Summer

(Special excerpt from The Truth about Parenting:

 Navigating the Elementary Years by Elizabeth Weidle © 2006)

 

While summer vacation gives our children a much-needed break from school and a chance to play with friends, it does not need to be a break from learning. When my younger son Nick was a rising sixth grade student, he needed some help with his writing skills. Trying to fight the irony of him having a writer for a mom, I took the advice of his fifth grade teachers and purchased Children’s Spectrum Writing; Grade 6 Edition. This is a good series that offers many activities to build writing and basic grammatical skills in creative ways.

 

About half-way through the summer, I reviewed Nick’s activity book and found he was doing a great job working through the lessons, writing in his journal, and was almost done with a book report. The secret to Nick’s motivation was making the summer learning activity fun and scheduling a regular time for the activity. This was his fourth summer to include activities to enhance academic skills learned over the school year. Nick now expects to do something academically challenging during his long break. One summer he decided to give his summer learning a name, “The Young Writers Club” and invited one of his best buddies to join. In July of that summer, Nick and his friend got to celebrate their diligence in doing their week with an afternoon of go-cart racing and arcade games. Of course, Nick pointed out he had to try everything so he would have a lot to write in his journal.

 

During the last few weeks of summer, parents can help children hone the skills they learned during the past year and introduce them to some new ones.

 

Here are ways to motivate your child to keep learning over the summer:

 

Language Arts Ideas

 

Build writing skills by finding creative ways to encourage your child to write. Writing letters to friends and family is a good way for her to strengthen family ties and keep relatives informed about your lives. If she likes letter-writing, arrange for a pen pal in another state or country. Encourage her to put together a newspaper or magazine by combining articles with photos, drawings or clipped images. She can report on ordinary events in her life—including outings—using her powers of observation and description. If you have desktop publishing software, you can help her print out her writings in different formats including pamphlets and booklets. Consider saving the newsletter and sending it out with your Christmas cards instead of the traditional letter you write.

 

Encourage reading with regular visits to the library. Most libraries sponsor summer reading clubs with easy-to-reach goals for preschool and school-age children. Check the library calendar for special summer reading activities and events. Libraries also provide age-appropriate lists for summer reading. Also ask for suggestions. Our favorite librarian (Carol) recommended that Nick read the Diana Wynne Jones books. He was immediately interested in the books when he read the back cover promotion, “If you like Harry Potter, you will like this series.”

 

Make reading fun by reading with your child outdoors, on the front steps, on the patio, at the beach or park. Let your child read to you. For a younger child who may not be reading well, point out the relationship between words and sounds.

 

Math Ideas

 

Practice mental math. When you are shopping, ask your child to calculate the total cost of your purchases in his mind.

Turn car time into school time. Teach your child about maps, directions and distances. Let him map out the course for the trip, keep track of the miles as you go, and compute the gas mileage.

Learn about statistics. If your child is a sports fan, have her collect information on player statistics and then follow the game results in the paper.

Practice measurements in the kitchen. Let your child do some of the cooking this summer. Learning about fractions can be more fun when the outcome includes eating chocolate chip cookies.

Help your child start a business. Lemonade stands, mowing lawns, and pet care are good options for a child in elementary school.

Have your children create a budget for their allowance or estimates of money to be earned by doing chores for others, and keep a record of the items they buy each week and their costs. If expenses exceed income, ask them to figure out ways to reduce spending and/or increase revenues.

Open a savings account at a bank so your child can watch his money grow.

 

Social Studies Tips

 

Turn summer vacations into learning excursions. Some good and fairly inexpensive options include touring local, state, and national historic sites and landmarks.

Watch history unfold on stages. Check calendar listings for outdoor dramas. In North Carolina there are many including the very popular Horn in the West, Unto These Hills, and America’s oldest and longest running, The Lost Colony, which tells the story of the first settlers to the New World.

Create a family tree. This will help your child gain a personal sense of the past by doing research that can include history lessons on the time periods family members were alive. Start the project by telling your child what you know about your family and then have your child contact and interview other family members.

 

Science Tips

 

Visit state Museums of Natural Science. Check the museum calendar in your area for special programs for children from preschool to grade 12.

Start a bug club. With over one million insect species in our world, your child will have lots of fun collecting pictures and stories to share with others in the club.

Turn car trips into science expeditions. Pick up a copy of Diane Flynn Keith’s book Carschooling for dozens of ideas. Be the Magic School Bus character Ms. Frizzle and help your kids explore the world that is just a windshield away.

Explore nature together. A trip to the beach can be an opportunity to learn about science. Have your child notice phenomena like what happens when waves crash on the shore. Gather various seashells or rocks to compare their shapes, colors and structure.

 

Resources:

- www.scholastic.com/magicschoolbus/games/teacher/

- Summer Smarts for Cool Kids by Penny Warner

 

 

Thank you for your continued support, your encouragement and for all you do for the children,

 

 

 

 

Liza Weidle

http://home.nc.rr.com/lizaweidle/

Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it.

The Truth about Parenting: Navigating the Elementary Years is published by McBryde Publishing Web site www.mcbrydepublishing.com or http://home.nc.rr.com/lizaweidle/